I was once a believer in Christ, but it doesn’t matter anymore to me. I lost my belief, because of these so=called Christians who keep preaching “forgive & forget” & “love others unconditionally as Jesus did”. How can these people keep preaching that to me, when they can’t forgive & forget any of my past mistakes. They have to set up these so-called boundaries or block me from contacting them, but yet they still claim that we are friends? Yeah okay. It’s just a way to tell me to go elsewhere and leave them alone.
Just say what you really mean instead of hiding behind “healthy boundaries for your own good” or whatever. I’m only human. I make mistakes just like everyone else does. Where are the real Christians who actually practice what they preach? Joyce Meyers, Joel Osteen, Billy Graham, etc. are the real Christians. Yes, they do make mistakes too. But, at least they don’t shut out others. They love others unconditionally, even if they don’t approve of their lifestyle, actions, etc. I’ve noticed in the local church how there are less and less people practicing what they preach. They quote the Bible, but yet, they still turn their backs on the ones who are struggling, like myself. Struggling to fit it. Struggling to know the Truth. Struggling with life in general. I haven’t seen what grace is like, so I can’t give it out.
It doesn’t matter anymore if I’m dead or alive. It doesn’t matter anymore if I’m a Christian or not. It doesn’t matter anymore if if I’m happy or depressed. It just doesn’t matter anymore. Depression DOES hurt. And, it’s a part of my life. I don’t know if I’ll ever be a Christian again. I’ll have to wait to see if a real Christian comes along.